Moving from dating to being on a committed relationship is a significant milestone. Making a conscious decision to invest emotionally and mentally in another person isn’t one to be taken lightly. So how do you know when you are ready to take this step?
Self-awareness plays a huge role in being able to tell whether you’re ready for a relationship. Being able to understand your own needs, desires and values is essential before making a long-term commitment to someone else. Take time to reflect on your goals and desires, and the path you want your life to take, and be honest with yourself about whether your partner aligns with them. If they don’t, you could end up feeling like they’re holding you back, which will lead to resentment.
Another crucial element is being able to communicate as a couple. The ability to have open and honest conversations about your feelings, expectations and long-term plans makes it more likely that you’ll stay on the same page as a couple while you inevitably change and grow as individuals. If you struggle with this, it might be too soon to take the leap into an exclusive relationship.
You should also reflect on whether you are developing a strong emotional bond. The strongest partnerships are built on trust, mutual respect and a strong foundation of friendship. Make sure you know the difference between fancying the pants off someone, and being able to enjoy their company through good times and bad.
Finally, trust your instincts. There’s room for being rational and logical, but trusting your gut is also important. If you feel calm, content and gently excited about a future with this person, you’re probably ready to be in it for the long-term. If you have a niggle or a doubt, it doesn’t mean you should break up with them immediately, but maybe hold out a little but longer before agreeing to update your relationship status.
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